My heart hurts...

Saturday, January 2, 2010

Dear friends of ours suffered a miscarriage last week. I promise not to curse (too much) but DAMMIT. I'm so pissed off, angry, and heartbroken. My heart just breaks for them. More than anything, I want to say something or do something that will make it "better"; and more than the average person, I realize that is completely impossible. So, even though I wont list their names here, please say a prayer for them, that your warmth and love will surround them right now as they mourn their snugglebaby.

8 comments:

Anonymous said...

Its been three months since my daughter was stillborn, and I fear I have hit a new low this week. To top off the week my daughter should have been born, my husband tells me he wants to wait awhile, two years perhaps, before having another child. So now the only thing I have ever wanted - a large family - has apparently been flushed down the crapper. First by God (sorry, but you don't get to keep this one), then by my parents ("you better not have anymore!"), and now by my husband ("I think we should wait..."). Well just shit on me. I've been in bed for the past two days, and I think I'll just stay there. to hell with it all.

(thank you for giving me a place to vent; I don't have that anywhere else)

Jessica said...

Michele, its always a matter of why? Why that baby? Sending prayers for healing to your friends.

Michele said...

Anon... If you ever want to chat, you are always welcome to email. And you are always welcome to vent here. I am so sorry and am keeping you in my prayers.

Heather said...

Oh no, I hate this kind of new. I am praying for them.

one-hit_wonder said...

I hate this kind of news, too.

Anon: My heart hurts for you.

AKD said...

Prayers and love to your friends.

sonja said...

This is such heartbreaking news. I am praying for your friends.

Just Breathe said...

That is very sad. I am so sorry.
If you want me to send a handkerchief let me know. I will pray for them.